Showing posts with label Commitment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Commitment. Show all posts

Monday, April 2, 2018

Taxes

Judith Ashley is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic fiction that honors spiritual practices that nourish the soul and celebrates the journey from relationship to romance.
Several years ago when I decided I wanted to consistently write a blog, I stumbled around trying to figure out what to talk about. A year ago, I settled on having a monthly theme.
Last month’s theme was Commitment.
This month’s is Finish-End.
In the United States, April is the month our annual report to the Internal Revenue Service (IRS) is due and any taxes owed are paid as well as any taxes due (a refund) is requested.
As I write this on Saturday, March 31, 2018, I’ve all my figures gathered and noted on sheets of paper. As I finally made my appointment to meet with the person I worked with last year, rather than pay them to organize everything, I’ll do it myself.
What that means is that between now and Tuesday, I will sit down with a clean sheet of paper and transfer those figures in neat rows that can easily be seen, understood and put into the computer system that will spit out my return.
I’ve several friends who do their own taxes but I’m not that brave. Nor do I necessarily trust putting numbers into a tax form on the computer and hitting send (although I do sign the paperwork granting electronic filing privileges to the firm I use).
While I’m not as early I have been in the past, I’m nowhere as late as I was last year – filing a few days before the October deadline. Next year I’ll be much earlier because I’ve my new system and can easily keep in up each month.
An old saying is the only thing certain is death and taxes. I expect I’ll be doing this dance between the first of February and the middle of April for years to come. By my calculations, I’ve at least another twenty-five years!!! Unless a law is passed that says once you celebrate your one hundredth year, you no longer have to file! What do you think about that idea?
In the meantime, in case you missed the news, I’ve also ventured into writing non-fiction. My first book, Staying Sane in a Crazy World is available at your favorite e-retailer. By following the simple process outlined in this book, if paying/filing taxes drives you crazy, you can create a plan to change that!
Do you ever feel as if the world around you is tumbling out of control and
there is nothing you can do to make your world a better place?

Do you ever wish there was?

Staying Sane in a Crazy World may help guide you toward stopping the tumbling and choosing how to take effective control of your life.

The reality is there is no One answer that fits all but we each have Our answer.

In this short guide, Judith Ashley leads you through a straight-forward process that allows you to find Your answers. Answers you’ll use to craft a Personal Staying Sane Plan that will help you regain and keep your balance whenever the world around you is out-of-whack.

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© 2018 Judith Ashley

Monday, March 26, 2018

A Commitment to Safe Schools


Judith Ashley is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic fiction that honors spiritual traditions that nurture the soul.

It is Sunday afternoon, less than 12 hours before this post will go live. If you've checked out this blog you'll know my theme this month has been Commitment.

 I referenced M.L. Buchman’s post at Romancing The Genres earlier in March “But I Had A Plan” in my March 19, 2018 post here. I’ve talked about Olympic athletes and the level of commitment it takes to reach that level of performance. I’ve also talked about a continuum of commitment.

As I write this last post of March 2018, I’ve so many more ideas about commitment running through my mind.

Why? I watched several hours of the coverage of the March For Our Lives events yesterday.

These young people personified Commitment. While the specific message is about gun control, the underlying belief is:

We Have A Right To Feel and Be Safe In Our Schools.

Their passion, whether standing on the stage in front of thousands of people or being interviewed on t.v. talk and news shows, was evident. More than once I had tears in my eyes.

The young person who said that she’d learned to duck bullets before she learned to read.


The Marjorie Stoneman Douglas student who tailored her speech to exactly 6 minutes and 20 seconds, the amount of time it took the shooter in her school to murder 17 students and faculty.


The youth who came from all across the United States to speak about their personal experiences, their losses.

Speaker after speaker spoke about this being a cause that they believe in and will work on for as long as it takes to achieve their goal. They challenged adults to step up and support whatever is needed to create safe learning and living environments. It was clear to me that these young people will settle for nothing less than safe schools.

My other thoughts centered on seeing young people engaged in the democratic process of free speech. It’s more than having free speech. It’s what you do with it. Memories of speech classes and speech contests from my own high school days surfaced. If you took speech or entered a speech contest when you were their age, you know that these young women and men had the ability to write their thoughts and feelings without an adult doing it for them.

And, they have all the ingredients of a successful plan:
A clear and specific goal
A passion for the goal
The belief they can reach that goal.

What I’m excited to see is where the March for Our Lives takes us as a nation. Where the commitment of these young people will lead us. What we, as adults, will choose to do when challenged or invited to join them in creating learning environments where every child knows they are safe from violence.

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Learn more about Judith's The Sacred Women’s Circle series at JudithAshleyRomance.com


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© 2018 Judith Ashley

Monday, March 19, 2018

Commitment


Judith Ashley is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic fiction that honors spiritual traditions that nurture the soul.

Matt Buchman had an interesting post up at Romancing The Genres on 02/28/2018  But I Had A Plan.

Matt references Napoleon Hill’s work specifically
+ Have a clear and specific goal
+ Have a passion to reach that goal
+ Have an unshakable belief in being able to reach the goal

As I read Matt’s post I was reminded of Garrett Gunderson’s point about 100% commitment. What I see Matt and other successful authors have is that 100% commitment. And that is a part of the “unshakable belief” they can reach that clear and specific goal for which they have a passion. These authors put 30 - 40 – 60 hours a week into their writing (research, writing, publishing, promotion).

Others of us (and I include myself in this category), have a clear and specific goal, we have the passion to reach that goal and we have a belief we will reach the goal – in time. We have commitment but it’s not the same 100% commitment Napoleon Hill talked about or these successful authors display. Our commitment isn’t 100%. Our lives do not revolve around our goal.

I’m pointing this out not to say One way is Right and the Other way Wrong. 

They are both valid.

I’m pointing this out to say don’t expect the same results unless you are putting forth the same level of commitment. My 75% commitment is not going to give me the same results as someone who puts in 100%. It will, more than likely, give me better results than someone at the 50% level.

The following is what I shared with some writer friends:

I’m not in the 100% commitment place either. It’s helpful to me to see commitment as a continuum of sorts and look at those things that I work on – as altogether they are a 100% commitment of my time and energy.

I also reminded them about a friend who, this past year, had my 100% commitment for periods of time. This year not so much. I may commit a morning or part of a day to him and his affairs but I am not 100% committed to him. On a three hour round trip drive to visit him, I listened to Dr. Joe Vitale’s “The Missing Secret” CDs. Listening to that CDs was all about me. And as it turned out, listening to the CDs ended up being about my writing.

So instead of saying “I didn’t get any writing done yesterday” the reality is I got a couple of hours (more like 4 - 5 when I add in other things I did) on my writing.

Judith and Sarah Raplee with poster of
first published book
Each of us are living our own lives in accordance to our core values and priorities. Acknowledging what our commitment is to various aspects of our lives is important. Not just our commitment level but also our priorities.

All of the authors I know that I see at the 100% commitment level to their writing, do stop and focus on other priorities in their lives. The ones I know have done this because of people in their lives needing them. Writing goes on the back burner for the time needed to resolve, solve whatever was going on.

Looking at your life as 100%, what are your priorities? Where is writing? Or if not an author, your career/job? What about re-creation? Family? It might be helpful to look at this as a pie chart with the various aspects of your life having varying size slices.

However, look at your life another way – prioritize your life.

Relationships (family, friends, etc.); 

Recreation (what you do for fun/relaxation); 

Career/Hobby (activity that you have fun doing and get lost in the process so time just slips by); 

Survival (Health and things like bill paying activity – you’d put your job here if the purpose for working that job was only to pay the bills).

You can share your thoughts about commitment in the comment section below.

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I’ve also ventured into non-fiction and Staying Sane in a Crazy World release is planned for March 26, 2018! Click this link to be added to my mailing list and you’ll receive a free advanced copy of Staying Sane. This offer ends at midnight March 25, 2018. FYI: You are actually only added once to my mailing list but this way you get both books free!


Learn more about Judith's The Sacred Women’s Circle series at JudithAshleyRomance.com

Follow Judith on Twitter: JudithAshley19

Check out Judith’s Windtree Press author page.

You can also find Judith on FB! 

© 2018 Judith Ashley