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| Colleagues from my child welfare days. Gabriella is dedicated to them. |
When I was in the 8th grade I had a pen
pal in Japan. We shared our hopes and dreams for our futures. (Remember this
was in the mid-1950’s so my dreams were limited to wife/mother, nurse, teacher
or secretary). I came across one of my letters (I always copied what I wrote her) a few
years back. There it was in black and white albeit somewhat faded. I wanted to
have 9 children (8 boys and 1 girl)!!! I even had names for everyone!!!
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| Judith with her granddaughters at her youngest's 8th grade promotion! |
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| Judith, both her granddaughters and her great granddaughter |
The Universe was merciful and I had one child, my
son. He had two daughters, my granddaughters. The youngest granddaughter has
two children—almost two and newborn.
Where I am in my life now, I remain grateful
that I only had one child. Raising him as a single mom had its challenges. I
won’t bore you with the details suffice it to say I have great respect for
single moms everywhere. In fact, Hunter
is dedicated to single mothers!!!
Also Lily is a single parents. And, even though Diana and Ashley are married, their husbands are not involved fathers.
Which
is worse, knowing you are a single parent or parenting alone because your
husband, the father of your children is emotionally and often physically
absent?
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