Judith Ashley
is the author of The Sacred Women’s Circle series, romantic fiction that honors
spiritual practices that nourish the soul and celebrates the journey from
relationship to romance.
June
is traditionally a month of love, romance and weddings. I will confess there
are times when I watch Say Yes To The Dress because I love to see the looks
on the bride’s faces when they find “The One For Them.” There are also times I
turn it off because I’m in judgement of the friends and family who are also at
the appointment. Seeing a smug look on the face of a friend or family member as
they make a snarky or cruel remark is a big turnoff for me.
So,
what is My Fantasy Wedding Dress?
When
I married in 1962, I wore my navy blue suit with matching shoes. It was the smartest
outfit I owned (we eloped). At this point in my life I can’t imagine I’ll get
married again but if I did, these are the elements I’d want in My Fantasy
Wedding Dress.
Scoop or V-neck? Will have to try them on to make final decision. Those are the necklines I wear the most and that I like. But which one will look best with the Bling? That's the deciding factor.
Scoop or V-neck? Will have to try them on to make final decision. Those are the necklines I wear the most and that I like. But which one will look best with the Bling? That's the deciding factor.
Bling!
At least around the hem if not around the neckline and wrists because I want
long sleeves. Floor length dress I’m thinking three to four inches of sparkle along the
hem with more like two inches around the neckline and wrists.
Color
and Fabric? A watered silk in pale pinks and lavenders with a bit
of rose feels just right.
Shoes?
Comfortable so no stilettos.
Flowers? A mixed bouquet of my favorites.
Clematis, geraniums, salvia, peonies, roses, honeysuckle, chrysanthemums, with
lots of baby’s breathe and ferns.
These are the elements of My Fantasy Wedding Dress. But...no picture. Not a one.
Why?
Because 1) I get hives and headaches going on photo sites and looking at images 2) Even if I saw something that looked like it might work, unless I tried it on - felt that watered silk against my skin, looked at the flash of rainbows from the bling, saw how the V or Scoop neck looked on me in That Dress, I'd not know if it was The One. Being a kinesthetic person, a challenge I have is it's all about how something Feels first. Then, if it feels right, how does it look. And in the end? How it feels triumphs over looks every time --- but this is my fantasy wedding dress so I can have both the feel and the look.
Aren't fantasies wonderful?
These are the elements of My Fantasy Wedding Dress. But...no picture. Not a one.
Why?
Because 1) I get hives and headaches going on photo sites and looking at images 2) Even if I saw something that looked like it might work, unless I tried it on - felt that watered silk against my skin, looked at the flash of rainbows from the bling, saw how the V or Scoop neck looked on me in That Dress, I'd not know if it was The One. Being a kinesthetic person, a challenge I have is it's all about how something Feels first. Then, if it feels right, how does it look. And in the end? How it feels triumphs over looks every time --- but this is my fantasy wedding dress so I can have both the feel and the look.
Aren't fantasies wonderful?
One
of the great things about writing romance stories is I always get to include a
wedding. Some are fancier (Gabriella’s is the fanciest) and some are less so
(Hunter’s would be that because they got married – well, you’ll have to read it
to find out). In each the bride has that glow about her that comes with
experiencing unconditional acceptance, support and love.
And
if you read all seven books, you’ll know even more about me. Yes, I can see
myself as the bride in each of their weddings.
If
you are interested in reading Lily: The
Dragon and The Great Horned Owl, email me at Judith@JudithAshleyRomance.com
with your request. I’ll send you a link to download your digital copy. You will
be asked to sign-up for my mailing list and to write a review but that is a
choice. The free digital copy comes to you with no strings attached.
My first book, Staying Sane in a Crazy World is available at your favorite e-retailer.
Do
you ever feel as if the world around you is tumbling out of control and there
is nothing you can do to make your world a better place?
Do
you ever wish there was?
Staying
Sane in a Crazy World may help guide you toward stopping the tumbling and
choosing how to take effective control of your life.
The
reality is there is no One answer that fits all but we each have Our answer.
In
this short guide, Judith Ashley leads you through a straight-forward process
that allows you to find Your answers. Answers you’ll use to craft a Personal Staying Sane Plan that will
help you regain and keep your balance whenever the world around you is
out-of-whack.
© 2018 Judith Ashley
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